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Monday, 8 June 2015
my thoughts on the issue of assisted suicide
Im gonna share my thoughts on assisted suicide.
I do think it should be legalised and available to select individuals on a case to case basis.
What i find difficult is determining between terminal illness and terminal mental health conditions. One causes incredible emotional and physical pain, and the other just psychological emotional pain. But both are extreme hell to live with on a daily basis.
So who determines whether someone has had enough of either and needs to finally be free from their demons.
People should have a choice!
I know there is a fine line between what is classified as a long term terminal condition. But I would argue that some mental health conditions are terminal and do not improve even with medication, and therapy. That underlying emotional pain eats at you, that tear inside you just continues to rip your guts out.
When you have a hole that can never be filled., and an emptiness and hopelessness that just cant be explained. Does this give you a right to decide to end it all?
I would like to think there is some flexibility with legalities surrounding assisted suicide.
When a animal is in pain, we don't like it to suffer, if theres nothing more than can be done to change the situation we kindly put the animal to sleep. Yes its a kindness. So why cant that be so in certain cases where the pain has been ongoing for many many years and they just need to be set free.
Who's deserving of being set free?
When is it considered murder?
I do believe that those who are terminally ill from cancer etc should be able to make the final decisions on where they want to call it quits.
After all when someone has been through every means necessary to try and recover but has not been able to, and has been given a time line and a date for death, there is no hope left, they are just trying to make themselves comfortable in the meantime before the due day arrives.
They should be able to die before their body breaks down and they enter a vegative state, especially since their dignity is being compromised, and a lot of sufferers do not wish their family and friends to have to cope with the effects of seeing the one they love breaking down.
My mother recently had to deal with the death of her father dying from leukaemia. She is still scarred from those last few hours spent with him. Once you see a loved one in such a state its very difficult to erase that picture from your mind.
My mother has not been successful in removing that image and other family and friends have similar mental pictures of their loved ones that they cannot erase. So back to my argument if someone is able to bail out earlier than expected how much kinder that is on the individual experiencing the illness, and the family and friends around them, left with positive memories. Maybe a meal out with them a special weekend of fun, and then they bail out of life.
I just wonder if that is the way to move forward. To accept the situation thats being faced and allow those individuals to make their own decisions about when they will face their fate of death.
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I have some thoughts on this subject, particularly today. I am on the couch, I have been all day. My neck and back, my arms, legs, and particularly my knees, feet, and hands ache until I really have to concentrate to write this. It began when I was 14, and I fell and broke the end of my "tailbone." Within a couple of weeks I had developed a terrible case of ulcerative colitis, it would last for decades. Then there were the skin rashes. In 2009 I was finally accurately diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis, an auto immune disease, after I came across ophthalmologist who advised me to be tested for the disease. I had been to this physician because once again my left eye was so painful, red, and I had black spots floating through my vision when I could stand to open it. (AS can get to bad the iris of your eye swells, and when light changes cause your pupil to spasm when it does so.) Many days I limped, because my right hip would have unbearable pain which radiated down my leg, and out my heel. I feel terrible today, and it is depressing to once again feel like death is such a perk in life... I have had so many days like today, BTW, I am almost 63 now. My life is full of positive accomplishment. I paint in oils and water colors, play 3 musical instruments, raised 5 biological children, 1 step child, and 35 foster children. I am an active advocate for military service members, and their families. I have lobbied in Washington for victims of military sexual trauma, and been a part of the Victoria Moore bill, which made the PTSD benefits sustained after MST the same as those PTSD benefits sustained on the battle field. Currently I live in Germany, my husband works for the State Department, and I am working on a new career, photo journalism. In the past I have been a nurse for 27 years, a general contractor for 7 years, building custom homes and some light commercial construction, and been the day care coordinator/ director for 2 centers for 8 years. Most of my days have included pain, both physical, and some substantial emotional pain as well... that isn't something I dwell on whenever possible, but I have faced some substantial losses, and so many agonizing days of pain. I am a Christian, I have the sustaining power of God, His mercy and grace, love and keeping of God, and my life is rich, full, and rewarding... most days... There are other days when I long to go home, to the place of my real citizenship... Heaven, but that decision is not mine, and the One whose decision it is, keeps me through those days. Long ago, if left to my own devices, I would have left this world... and missed so much suffering, love, wonderful days, beautiful people, and joy and happiness... That is why I do not believe in what you are proposing... we have no way of knowing our future, but God does, and never puts upon us more than we can bear, and learn from...
ReplyDeleteI write very well, but all the typos in the above I am going to leave... I just don't write or think well when I feel as bad as I do today, and the reader will figure it out or not. Tomorrow I will be better, or I will be worse, as God wills, and He will sufficiently meet the needs of the day.
DeleteThank you for your feedback to my article. It sounds like you have had quite a journey. Well done for being as strong as you are and getting through.
DeleteI am not saying that in every circumstance that assisted suicide should be made avail, its on a case by case basis, and yes if there seems to be hope still of the person having a long and successful life then it should not be an option,. Saying this though I do know people who are in the state of intense mental anguish and there does not seem to be a way out. With terminal illness, more so. Its hard to make the final decision but in some circumstances it seems like the kind way to let people go. thank you again for your feedback.